Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

6 R% Q( C& i( [# ]3 T2 i( j1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
. `2 u; F( |6 N1 E! f; R4 r# E6 E! |Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
4 g6 h% z) q" pIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
% o- L2 E9 m5 m; v% b9 ELimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
; o% S  B; E7 xFrom no to yes

- r+ |( r4 W$ u0 ^While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

; B# X; @- ]1 f; f: T! M1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
/ t! g) W" J2 f; H: y+ q  ITry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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