Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

! e, i  u7 Y% Q4 u5 w  i: EWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
. ^4 P2 H  m9 L' f8 OIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

* h2 q6 l0 ?6 `/ |1 I. @3.        Stay one step ahead
* U4 `0 Q% \4 ^, ELimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
$ P( y  z+ y, ^7 m" T' oFrom no to yes

2 ~* ?8 Y3 ~9 l3 W  c- g5 yWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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/ E% C! W" y* A8 ?6 ]& l: STry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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