Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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( D3 X% O) N2 o2 }$ z. {( F8 tWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

+ N. j( X2 n9 u: S1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
( `) t) i6 j* y7 HTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

' W" p; E/ k" H; U2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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! Q5 W/ l- c) J3.        Stay one step ahead
  Z/ f+ J5 Z# o2 l6 KLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
% `( Z: F& @+ u& R$ sTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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