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Stop saying no to your toddlers

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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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! \3 n1 p6 D8 ?, ~2 aWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.% I" e& A/ u% f6 }2 H2 ~

- G2 N; q8 p0 ]; m) p2.        Speak up when she’s good" L& V. T) P- {. K; B
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.: }6 K: y; [2 X! }5 m- E! _. r# |. d

: a4 q  k  u1 X- M3.        Stay one step ahead
1 n, k2 U( a, ?* [# n* l# X$ gLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
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发表于 2007-4-12 16:15 | 显示全部楼层
学习再学习....
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发表于 2007-4-12 17:52 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:6 O( R3 F. M4 G1 H5 _2 x# t

- v2 c4 k  k4 U6 e- j1.        Replace “no” with “yes”! b; N6 d7 y( x5 \
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-4-13 07:30 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”,怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案,希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。
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发表于 2007-4-15 10:44 | 显示全部楼层
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