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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 1 X4 g. A& @7 B; ^( M& `9 l, K

: o4 ~3 @/ y' [7 S$ w* QThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic $ b# N/ B' E& v* f
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name # I' |. x, T7 V

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4 U0 Z) L2 c- d3 ]3 k" x+ k. Ka child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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7 m" l9 A  [* k) kThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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$ X) N% X7 f! {: `  {  Tin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. & E3 S% G: o6 ?
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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$ T% A- L) L5 u9 Idue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 7 g8 G; q8 k6 M" L& ]0 w9 h+ p
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes 4 \3 N1 H( p. a$ f: X- \  t% s

0 K, t" M9 e' d5 l# twith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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. Q/ u5 I9 g. r( b- q" hThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. * ]2 p% u0 _0 ?. d' R3 ^0 X: ?
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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4 w, i2 z- ~, U" @3 j" \) myour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 2 e9 `" i. s  F. _* l. L

" e: o0 t- N; U' G. l; @; Kwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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