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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
2 G- z4 y. ~6 E! cHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
% i% ?6 p. A3 ] c8 lwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
1 A3 l3 [* U1 Z' s& P9 M, j: Y, a4 Iman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
" b5 `. t% X6 g* N) r' C& gWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
, N8 i0 M+ d1 }6 d- ^to be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
9 Y' F+ Q! W& Wowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even * u' X/ A: o/ Y0 Q* [7 D% Z
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 9 h3 i" N6 a5 }7 Q; P5 J" }
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
8 w% e0 ?. q7 e# ~" m5 h% b( j4 ahanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. & i' U# T; p0 Q+ n7 D
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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7 W5 M3 B/ F3 o- f: R; k'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, # M! `3 c: N9 ~! U! ~, D0 H
`Why did I receive an F?'
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( y" r/ a+ N& B'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
0 B1 y' o! `9 ]You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
. Q$ r( _) K* s' |) ?Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
K( v' L6 c5 ~4 R: qYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
0 K Q. j v( v0 _- k$ v7 Fpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
8 T. t+ j2 ]) N( Y$ D( }, U1 k. hadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
4 y/ M( v! f: C+ j4 f9 I# X% h9 d8 mreconsider your grade.’ ; W/ r9 D# _$ L
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father ' _& {( [1 Y1 y* U5 E& N
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
8 c) E6 `/ T3 d. ], S2 i) fown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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% o3 ~. m& S7 a+ f'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same ' j! ?2 N; D# K3 C! o7 h3 D' w
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 0 G2 O9 T) y: J( g. [
keep my dream.''
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! `9 S, [& \! `Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story : N$ F/ W! Z+ v9 a, E; s( i' E
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of - J2 `% Q8 A7 O# [' O% H9 W5 z
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
1 f7 [+ `, q9 ofireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
' m1 n# k! d7 S, _; \that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
2 h7 U" C( T- j/ _; z& \: A8 NWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this ' I* @. Q4 P# F8 W
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During " f5 O, A X/ b4 P
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption , x: f+ ~' B4 U/ T
not to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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