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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.% @5 p7 p, _( z
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"8 z8 f: R+ C$ w W5 M% _. e1 c( K
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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0 |+ W7 P% s. oThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks. o5 [( r- w' }; r+ z0 C
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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% [$ e& Q3 s5 E x2 W8 e0 ~ [Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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; @' z, g' h8 a1 i# k+ mPretty good.
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. C8 L1 A7 t7 H9 {6 e" [! eIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.+ J+ q6 u6 M r3 }0 ?; f
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Great! How are you doing?8 v5 k' M( |8 O: X4 k
6 ]5 M4 W5 _! [ D$ \- ~4 ZThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.% J" f) d( i" M3 W! E
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I've been better.
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" k9 w( m- Y; J: ?2 e) m* _7 FPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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' g% l4 Z- i6 M1 V( s7 B/ M& f7 UA: How are you?9 N8 `# n4 @ v9 z- K) A P
8 Y2 R6 d u; }' s6 q0 g6 S w7 l) OB: I've been better.- F" Q6 n# Z3 @' `1 ~5 @& l. }; G+ A
. z4 p5 k# D q- ^1 o9 wA: What's wrong?& h+ x8 M2 X0 a5 R' s7 S2 R
( v8 L5 N7 S) T# B* U/ z! ]B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.9 P- \6 F U1 l% `
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How's it going?
. h4 r5 D0 y5 GThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.( c2 h3 c4 z( ~+ t1 d
; L! j7 f$ H, F8 qHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. % v$ f( O4 I4 J7 a
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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$ J2 D6 ^ Q0 {" ~3 jNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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/ q# G. ?" {( N8 U h4 y9 t6 YThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude." f6 @" c( W- W6 M. T6 o& r5 E; f i
' {' V9 y+ V4 {6 E( MOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.' ]: Z' t) P; h- T# l% u
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* b% |% I; I. N$ o1 L. p; CThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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j' \; L/ Q' o" w9 B' Z! ^+ D0 @Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!5 E# C$ \# \+ e G. h$ q! [
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.( S' J% [& [" J" K/ r/ V7 T! n
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What's happening?
7 m: p0 Z8 d I; `% S9 T; GThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way., t' R- p7 t6 J `& ^# Y/ z
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