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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters9 d9 V; N! t8 f+ m1 t) ^
3 }6 D; A% G, w' @There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.9 x( L( e) c1 G0 a I; W: }4 U
+ S5 S/ d' \& T. q/ K0 F+ e" m* }You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"1 q% ]7 ]! k7 ]4 D
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Fine.+ `, Q* m/ `5 |9 y7 r1 R
0 s5 F. B& N- t* b( `This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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$ J+ ^- ^9 E6 r& \/ n! [; @Not bad.
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$ ` L. B/ [; `1 C; ]' _This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine"." f$ E' a3 A: q- i$ p L
# k* R; x* ]$ U! P7 ~( a; e% HFine, thanks." U1 y& r; Q* {/ `+ _/ j# ?
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.: H. n0 n5 |2 g* z- _/ j" R
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Very well, thanks.
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/ y7 s* U$ A6 R4 I! nA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.1 `8 O+ F) {- S0 j& l7 v
; i4 X, ]: j1 K% c/ e) S! i* jPretty good. C( W( w8 |+ j
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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: k8 X/ G, U4 b2 h3 r7 Y* i# d& FGreat! How are you doing?2 V" q- h: `6 a$ a
" n- Q: L/ l7 ~; w+ l8 P+ EThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.: u: s# z, l% N3 {+ v( K
' x) I' }! p) ^# D8 q3 }$ C& pI'm hanging in there.
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, O1 {* E; h2 EThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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R" U" b: H5 l( j0 t& ^( {People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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A: What's wrong?" J3 ?' X, v4 q1 a' O9 ?; C3 p
9 X- E2 ]! n0 O6 l8 z# j4 YB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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! R5 W, K+ @& ~* |, I+ t* s! N4 uHow's it going?0 @3 u" j3 W+ n
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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6 t" E3 J- K' u# B2 `! W- B5 iHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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0 h! t G. d& J! XIt's going well. 3 Y; {! N9 t6 K8 x
% P4 v) g+ _ q/ \This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. : K2 M% Q* a6 R6 k
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What's up?
, G* N2 {5 j4 U9 [( B2 t! mThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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* X* R0 S: Q' e1 u# e- | IThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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3 q$ o. L! _2 q9 }- \& O" tNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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! U( X* I" t7 \$ D$ V8 k( ANothing.; `$ j$ u0 ?% a% i4 Q8 s' p
2 B! q6 S) P3 x I: x) iThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.# @/ S; W2 u+ t U2 b3 L
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Oh, just the usual.9 `1 s1 x }- y, ^0 d
' e. o$ |0 j0 A; V7 P$ I6 pAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.9 L L1 R: i# `) L/ G' V
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* B9 E: z. t) C5 B+ a4 fThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it. C P& r- [: B
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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2 G0 J# A: Z) W5 [( j) T+ DYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
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