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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters% w' R, {. x# j; R+ b# `4 i9 I; f- {
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"1 L% h' `% W* U* m% j$ Q
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( _$ t3 e3 U/ C1 A: M# i3 y" uFine.
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( X' y) g' ]! W* v6 iThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.& `, A# ^3 T- x2 L% M( {/ P/ v& K. ^
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".+ w1 i" S$ c! } K n: e" D+ D
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+ E& a4 d; P! u8 J! }8 JThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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# K/ j+ p d8 h" y! ?- I/ {Very well, thanks.& _5 U! b& U5 T9 i+ A* O
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.) _+ [( Q( h- e! i1 A. V
5 { t% d0 N+ KIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.9 O+ O) S; W7 O4 b3 l' r9 f7 ?7 A
( X+ x8 _2 ?6 bGreat! How are you doing? T. q6 n/ q/ T$ v) c7 O( A
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.: l) B. G% r8 [/ m! K5 O( ~
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.; R5 G0 x# @ ?7 C8 @
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I've been better.- J$ I$ F9 r. r! q. E
3 p' R. A/ ]0 Y. M1 W2 v/ I. JPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:' {. Q, {; ~) A* a" d/ M0 f
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A: How are you?0 {! B$ E- H5 ]
( ]5 ~5 E4 B% S' H' ~B: I've been better.0 x# b; R/ o, U1 C
% v: y( F9 d1 i, cA: What's wrong?( D% f+ {7 ?+ i) r' N8 I4 g" X
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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7 h$ ]3 y Q( E4 g( D4 R8 \* KHow's it going?
; [& ^; b, e: R) HThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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( s) F& `( j" `- [Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"4 _. i0 l7 j0 N' J9 p
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It's going well. ( m7 m1 g, C ~
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?% c0 G* u/ T. h3 i: |3 f1 O
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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7 M& F- w2 O9 B# z2 {# ^. Z$ cNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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, r; g, D/ N+ r1 M5 V pThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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: M, V% E0 k& a) oOh, just the usual.0 F1 G& V9 [' r& T
2 m& u9 F. Z8 _' nAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.
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8 Q( D& Q. r. qThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.6 I2 X7 |8 M( s- ^& J1 _" P
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2 N4 n: l7 l% H; YYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.& I2 Q& y( J0 M
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What's happening?) `+ D& @) l: ?7 q2 {. _8 t
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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