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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters; t( g; n: G1 f: x3 G7 {! e4 H& p, W9 f
$ N9 ?" f) w/ z9 f7 h' ~There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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. f" I6 U3 E8 f6 D, G3 f# s kHow are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.& V6 i6 P! e6 L# k
4 W8 q% w( n6 K3 rThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.& F" A" K, |' i" _
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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" {3 h6 e6 T. v; b8 |; g+ H9 qA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.( a: y" }+ D& u/ ?, U' n
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6 K; M) X( T* G& E4 o* Y" wIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?$ `2 y5 z$ D p: C
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.4 Q f* v$ ?. z% ?4 j/ ^
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day., _% g. m' T1 Z" H1 B8 k
% G- ~( i- g) T$ w7 Y' iI've been better.
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' m/ [ e$ V5 @ d9 Q3 ~/ G& P, `' bPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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K! l' r4 z$ t$ X+ }) M6 y5 DB: I've been better.3 I- F6 M1 M- C
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off." r0 ~ t6 H0 N! i; q8 y2 v
: ?+ ^3 F2 l5 V( ^" j5 j$ DHow's it going?
) v# M) s& k4 b. Z- _This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.* T* k: Y# e1 _& y! H) _2 z) J X
% |# U. N2 a9 _4 W. yHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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* ?& b2 q% f" }8 r, P. E- E2 j' fIt's going well. / q6 L7 W* @) j9 z1 U+ ~
, ]2 G5 S' z) @8 x, eThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 6 z4 ]( a" g! ?9 l. O
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What's up?/ Q" [, I; U+ I) N. E" Q
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.- [' b, e2 g& x: ]: F
7 v4 k- }' x8 [$ k' HThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."" Q+ D' L8 |- d6 c
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.: U2 M8 n" |6 V. S6 o% u$ R
9 W8 M2 P" q: m# V, ]This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.- l2 ?& P+ M1 z+ r1 H
( m4 n6 _1 v4 \9 V* V1 G0 K: eOh, just the usual.+ @/ k( t) g$ s& ^' I
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8 U- K& }6 g/ K% g# M5 PJust the same old same old." e3 s0 j& d$ z
4 H9 }9 v+ j k; n1 @This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.; h0 [: g: e" O, e2 v# ^ j
/ V7 k! c$ b! u4 ~# x5 r* ^Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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7 l$ P3 b3 f6 e: y) {! j. LYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
' Z3 m; N' L' d OThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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