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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters9 y$ I! d" z* f6 U- h R% v/ M- d" m* d
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss./ X* P# Z3 r2 H d4 W8 |
. G3 A, y C! v' \% lYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?" v' a% u6 z& i* O7 E
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How are you?
( ] J2 Z/ G) k" B C) zFine.
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& H3 t, t4 R3 a- y) P8 t9 |This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.0 C& s. V" G/ l2 Z0 e2 p
* A @3 D- k0 n4 l, t! f- ?2 iNot bad.! F4 c- G$ n& U( O4 z" E
( j0 R2 c# ]2 r4 _This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".6 D; d' |& d- r1 g/ P- K4 d
$ S; [1 [" f" YFine, thanks.+ A5 R$ H" J! J3 t* ^5 O0 q" z
6 U1 Q0 x1 J: s, @9 L2 I8 mThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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" k5 r8 z0 X) D6 ~. O# G+ yVery well, thanks.. c7 e. U; B9 a+ ^. q3 _0 S* q* u4 j
h* M9 j O8 tA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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/ z+ l6 `+ _& g! ]# ]: SPretty good.1 I: l$ m8 I- w! ^$ t
5 a* m$ w. F# Y( C- m4 LIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.4 X# H$ J& [8 m$ W
5 }" Q7 l/ Y& u( i% B q9 }Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.! \1 Y& u- Y% a
0 k/ Z( C0 V4 G$ }This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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/ v) E) j1 n& j9 q; WI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:3 M* J5 ^4 D9 {8 _, M3 U
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?6 I2 r& U& R- u4 _" b
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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, X i& I+ c! B4 T2 g1 d( s" VHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"& h! c# \; O1 Z4 b5 e
4 X7 p* {7 Q4 q/ n: b& oIt's going well. + g- z( M# |: N+ F+ K" @
) ^7 l5 V" y' e9 N; R) s6 v) X3 m6 X5 yThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. $ n8 G9 \/ E6 {
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What's up?+ `5 z) X" h$ ]! l) G) {9 X9 p
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:' F6 M& k, O" M2 B& y
/ _* P! `6 ?- u" WNothing much.7 [/ d2 g1 g: T: z+ ?' D3 H
7 N/ w# q. F( e# X: c* L1 A) LThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."& K K) f3 ]3 Y; _
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* r7 [$ S% _1 E9 [' a5 ^This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.# t4 i/ J6 M6 k: M b8 r
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Nothing.
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8 u) l$ L K5 [- \% T4 aThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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+ r& t$ j% [( y1 AOh, just the usual.# H% Y: G1 y, o
: A9 _# `' N; O( I0 M* E1 AAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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1 B2 o+ I+ s# `8 P' }Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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# G" N! y0 R( [' iYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?9 B0 D/ l; t1 z' m, }
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.) ^0 e1 d% K2 ?- D) ]4 g( |7 O
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