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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters" k& H$ x" [) l8 A
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.% J7 K! D, @, h9 o2 s2 K- n: g
. W9 n7 r) V8 d- sYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?
% y1 g6 b5 p5 r& J$ |: fFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.: Y& s/ O/ k4 z3 r
! l7 B$ g' F1 H. j+ kNot bad.$ X7 v& Q2 u& d' g2 e
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.+ P" ?$ e' L, \! y
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.. X0 I& }1 _' D! C) T
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Very well, thanks.+ z2 K& M% y7 S8 m; R9 q
; e' w1 |( {1 ~; ^; nA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.$ w) b4 Y/ ?; y0 p* w3 h) x& ~
7 ]7 e/ P1 r3 f+ N/ BPretty good.
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7 T l7 g: {2 R/ wIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.& n. y7 b& _- c* ]$ C
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Great! How are you doing?
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: Q; @' R/ O; o. m0 \9 d8 BThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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, X7 @3 S3 w0 p( A$ CI'm hanging in there.( U4 @( M& V, y( ]$ x. \
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.3 M t1 W. I% z
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I've been better.
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2 U. {+ X7 e4 |6 e- f3 G4 ^! jPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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B: I've been better.0 C& J- r, t; D" m( R; v4 h/ C% ~5 P
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8 E+ v$ z( m$ B! nB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.2 m) Z% g1 f. h% U% T* f6 k' t
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How's it going?: r( M7 p2 a& Y, Y$ t- [
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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; R- C& g# ^; l" C ^- ~Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"% }3 k! d& x2 j7 i
- l" i' v- u8 y! t8 GIt's going well. ( N. t5 U& Z* h" s$ l. F4 l
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. # F4 Y- ?8 _$ b; \, K
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+ X' T6 ] y3 R I& h2 r; G" j8 G' {This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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) E( q7 c% k' r7 u* T$ J$ o4 ?This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."$ `& o0 Y p8 e
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, r7 T/ u3 M, W" @$ i4 D1 }This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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; ?" j# ~7 a0 g1 `0 iThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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, B! P- D8 D3 d# q3 {Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.8 o# S- r8 z6 I, H+ |
9 z( [1 G A' P+ R& n3 RJust the same old same old.
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5 ] |: E0 T' J" z: X; E% zThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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4 y" P0 ^# {2 w- W" ~+ `$ sOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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# f, Q" Q% u6 z; V6 U; R. x! k7 AYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.5 x1 o( k/ x+ e3 z4 P$ j
. Y" Y5 h5 n4 M. V* p6 ]What's happening?
( I7 O6 A# V8 [! |9 BThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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