i am reading another good book by Gary Chapman " The Five Love Languages of Children". Act of service is just a part of parenting (very important during 0-6 years old), but in China for this case, it's almost everything of parenting...lol
本帖最后由 marie 于 2014-10-13 17:55 编辑 ' k N Z0 q# g% _; n. C! F' f6 O/ H' R! }
中国人家庭很多孩子不做家務,懒人,很多中国人学习好, why 搞不定 工作? 5 G9 ^3 }" P$ s1 ?我让孩子自己去面对一切,我们separate 生活, 让孩子自己去锻炼. follow up 孩子,' p9 i; |/ ~- G
孩子不喜歡,自己活着真累.最重要的是使孩子成为对社会有用的人 0 D3 _4 B$ U. u 1 j4 D$ I0 c. m2 r我见some chinese phd, master, 2-3 degrees, almost 40, never working.