i am reading another good book by Gary Chapman " The Five Love Languages of Children". Act of service is just a part of parenting (very important during 0-6 years old), but in China for this case, it's almost everything of parenting...lol
7 l. x5 I# w n. d8 x7 l$ D6 j中国人家庭很多孩子不做家務,懒人,很多中国人学习好, why 搞不定 工作? 9 j9 r" Z0 q6 p我让孩子自己去面对一切,我们separate 生活, 让孩子自己去锻炼. follow up 孩子, 1 J6 B' }* J8 K4 Z. C' U x孩子不喜歡,自己活着真累.最重要的是使孩子成为对社会有用的人7 P; J9 e) h( I; w
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我见some chinese phd, master, 2-3 degrees, almost 40, never working.