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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court./ B9 ^; w% U! t0 W7 ~0 D
Google small court.
% G( v* t( W2 }- R" _1 YThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
( B* q6 F; |) y5 F$ [9 jIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
8 J. S5 o R9 ?# BAs the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years./ a3 R H+ b2 N- g
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