 鲜花( 39)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court. N7 C& R: j0 F, T' N
Google small court.
( s) W* x# _( I- w& r1 }% FThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
; s) c" V, z9 ^& R2 {$ S* LIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. - P8 g t$ M2 c D" D. v% ^
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.
! P1 x/ O1 P7 @3 B R% t" w |
|