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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.: B# Q: Q2 P' h d$ E' j" |1 v
Google small court.
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If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. " Q' f! z* ?; c- b1 a# Z
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.
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