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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑
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, r4 e' |7 V2 L; h今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享4 T& Q9 {/ q7 c" R! n0 X

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Kahlil Gibran
9 M6 f% h( j( }$ w# s6 l9 qYour children are not your children.  j7 U; ^+ g0 r, Q
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
% e" T! h' d- J6 n  u: YThey come through you but not from you,3 j& v* p* }& }" u) b" N
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.1 U" i2 g; E. q, S
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
/ @. G5 Z( O% u+ m3 ]6 g- jFor they have their own thoughts.: n" B' |! o+ b: }3 F
You may house their bodies but not their souls,3 [6 K  T8 y  R0 x, Q, C5 n, ?
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,1 F, @8 [, ?2 v  G* g1 \, G7 ]' N
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.6 h/ v8 X: p+ L/ T- x- k5 D
You may strive to be like them,
( b  T% r# u- O( _) T$ B. Obut seek not to make them like you.' z  v# N7 g# W/ h2 q5 F
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
2 y( W% q: S& _5 a# JYou are the bows from which your children
! \$ x! U' A- H6 m7 Jas living arrows are sent forth.6 g2 N$ s% K7 E6 N+ j
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
7 R) _' Y; _; t9 r, \) y5 A) b1 x0 cand He bends you with His might& x# e5 ~5 t7 z5 K" Y1 W, L
that His arrows may go swift and far.& O  S* c  k* w4 n; x
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
# m! }: ]/ }9 E0 X& q, u+ R  pFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,
! m6 a( O- e+ i6 |2 B' L/ M" O2 Wso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。7 ]! O( j0 W: g- p

# H* [( u( P, w/ x1 ^$ h; R- I你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
% L! v. @9 j& ]; I7 b8 B他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。4 C: k* @0 N& ^- d/ Z. `
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。- ~0 Z! s- ?: j; L) ?
他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
; x6 F: S3 x' T2 m6 l& m你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,' l, a0 A9 z: n$ b$ ^' d
因为他们有自己的思想。2 b& Z' n! ^* Z# o, z# d
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,# x1 h5 @, r1 H. {- D' D8 J
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
* k# R. C5 Z1 x9 i1 R! M0 @你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,. }/ `7 y" X. e+ Q% \; `  L1 [; C
却不要让他们变得和你一样," a1 L( K) F4 @- @4 r* h
因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。
! B: o- D0 I" w0 ~你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
: M# Y' q- ?: H7 c弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
- Z+ s; [3 f! `! q它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
' G% e) q; M* q# j( N1 ?, D怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
( L7 i3 _' f, E; x因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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