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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 & r- t8 r/ q/ ^) M% w$ D
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今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享' V( B& M% |) m. P& `2 J, S+ v
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On Children3 E4 h) y0 }" W/ K- |, e/ B# X
Kahlil Gibran
" B8 @  d* E+ ^+ ZYour children are not your children.
1 }7 L" ]" G/ @; G+ T- ]* vThey are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.) i6 u" d) [- r" t4 t* M* f
They come through you but not from you,1 v( G' ]/ R& ]2 T3 F
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.1 A$ K$ W) D" x
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,' S7 V/ J% v. E& ^+ N
For they have their own thoughts.: H, I; [* r0 }8 N7 w0 \2 R, a* l
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
, @, H: u; l% ~For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
' t5 V4 D! V+ |& U5 [2 jwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
1 c1 ?7 @! P' y  i  l, LYou may strive to be like them,
# A# ~, ?1 P# D* e4 Mbut seek not to make them like you.' |* Q1 |- O8 X& H/ \& ^5 w
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
* |6 i9 \5 `" T( T" c. VYou are the bows from which your children
: z) Q% Q& _$ U1 C4 Was living arrows are sent forth." ?8 ^: _# B4 D  O4 N% W, F
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,8 g+ M& ?. ~1 k5 q, T3 b9 W9 Q% V
and He bends you with His might
' L; i- W$ y. m8 xthat His arrows may go swift and far.8 R5 V' p( V; t" p4 k9 u9 k
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;' y+ B" ]6 p+ t) [3 m, M6 R1 M
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
' W1 k/ O2 V/ L. [1 wso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。
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你的子女,其实不是你的子女。9 v+ n% @- a7 N1 p7 B) `4 u
他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
, f6 A5 _- A5 ^7 P1 o# z" Q他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
% f/ t3 E8 |  Z  q他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
) P& w4 Q1 K9 R, P+ i% n1 g你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
1 J6 Y* J' t2 _0 G# P因为他们有自己的思想。. d  a3 `4 z5 r' k
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,
/ F% j+ p6 L6 S! F$ q因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
8 q% C. j3 }0 G6 z, c你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
. N; v: i( g5 r" x, q# I; N* Q却不要让他们变得和你一样,
5 U- ?# b& J  }5 x4 x  D因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。) i5 U9 r8 k2 `$ z* ~  g, p( {
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
6 }5 z/ b7 x# [6 o7 c弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
& I, E/ m8 O% o+ ]9 |1 x它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。3 ]: I0 `; g; ~1 z
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,; i0 b; Z0 T1 w0 {4 d
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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