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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it.
; @9 Q4 S7 w3 p1 L G# wTouching words from the mouths of babes.( h6 ?% r% E( f* M3 w
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A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'& h5 {- s+ {+ f5 [9 R5 D. e
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'
" P8 r; r( _* {2 Y! NRebecca- age 8
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You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'0 {, v# G- O% ~" K
Karl - age 5
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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.' E) |7 J. P4 f7 X! o( K. r* w
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: Y/ V- F: s- h- R$ u' ^! c'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'1 u% ^7 z/ z! ^' e) }3 s
Terri - age 42 b% m& p; S% e* `( r0 a
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# i) e. L5 w5 ?) x+ R( z'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.$ [2 z: c( X* |- a0 T0 w: q( r% J( h
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'1 G$ g; g* h; c: p0 s. B7 ~
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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: v4 [& b5 A6 O; B( D% n. O, XNikka - age 67 w9 \' X' u/ i
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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& n9 _, d- L: f% `; ^'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
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2 {7 S9 l* ]1 y'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'6 P. ] G6 }& E
Tommy - age 60 ^9 H. x4 R* C v& M U7 c
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% \$ U. d! Z: q; K/ v'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.. U) s, L8 x* N" k* X' l# k6 `
4 \9 |% m& X7 x$ b$ Z6 w% @He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'! F+ i- M; Q+ ], C3 p- B! `9 C5 l
Cindy - age 8
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody: N6 X( P" o M* x
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C lare - age 6
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, H0 Y3 f# `3 `'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'7 U' G' {6 t S% u% `0 V2 f6 }4 X7 u
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B1 |* l5 R! Y& ^( q'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'
4 }. f( B" [ p( l5 F* M5 eMary Ann - age 4
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'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
! i: }1 ~6 e+ H6 n5 T3 zJessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.& M1 G: ^, N# \2 }
h: A; E' H$ M9 |9 u2 tThe purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
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The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.9 N" t: B/ C/ N; ]
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Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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. X& Q& \; K7 a' y'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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