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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first2 O+ V* r/ r" R6 f1 E' ?5 E
names:
I2 I2 s/ y" v& Q1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
" P1 g' g1 i$ B. H) S+ [: l2) The second second: Don't think about what to- {$ I/ ^# ?9 }$ G% o$ o* P# t* @0 `
say—listen for the name.
* V% c; r7 p3 |5 H% c! W& w1 E$ s3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. `, W! o% b ~, g( U" A& L
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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3 e* B F6 S( V G- U5 y/ n---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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