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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what! S8 @% g& t8 z" v/ Y& V7 \4 n
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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2 N- l4 R5 b2 l1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
* f+ f9 Q4 U, |" w2) The second second: Don't think about what to% [) B. ?# [& k# V* H+ t
say—listen for the name.
& \: L$ z" C* Y, |8 X3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
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with the same name.
& E: r# o# @$ S5 J5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the6 p' [8 @# h, o/ Y5 ~7 I0 c
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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