The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to+ I n6 r) g$ H! L
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear + y8 @4 ? J4 Sthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what8 J% E" t$ N5 o/ g$ t
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. i! K0 H; q& t1 `Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first % D- V. s) Q/ p7 c h& dnames: 5 }/ K6 Z6 o7 X1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.1 k. g) t. i. N& k
2) The second second: Don't think about what to5 i! F- m9 Z; E) j+ d: ~/ K; k8 e
say—listen for the name. $ T4 j1 E1 O. k3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. # L7 ]1 c7 O7 S. E6 K! r1 \4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know - r4 h& n0 |* Dwith the same name. $ v5 u. r! L5 ^ D- e5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the 8 h- a6 O0 F' N$ `" |% U( v) oend of the conversation." I( O- _5 s( x1 y
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>