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Sometimes people come into your life5 c/ A9 I8 Q# @ B) H
you know right away that they were meant to be there,! B1 @7 y6 d' l1 p
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,0 b! F2 Y7 c. ~4 E* @1 G
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.' j4 {4 d8 `+ Q; J
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) \# h- X4 i' X+ F! |5 u9 BYou never know who these people may be
, v. h2 W$ Q9 B8 R1 }but when you lock eyes with them,
$ R; Z0 Y U7 _* ?* k2 @you know at that very moment,9 r. `( m4 c: P
4 D" h" l( M* qThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# L. X l- l# e5 Z. B2 B: b
They are there for the reason you need them to be.0 ?) t1 F9 x3 L. @1 F% {
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, r0 W% x; _ y( I4 PSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
4 m7 T4 i4 @$ {4 HSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand., ?8 S+ e0 o* _1 g$ s2 f
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1 C# o; t' L+ s) aWhat we must realize is that our need has been met," b, v0 _2 n" m9 a
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.& _/ {- z/ a* n0 G
The prayer you sent up has been answered./ {4 @; q: I# Q' K8 `
And now it is time for you to move on.
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3 R a0 A t3 M# ~" W! e2 Z% _4 v: F% tThen people come into your life for a REASON$ {6 _( p! r. b, N3 I, d" K7 E! m1 t
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 D; w" ]4 `1 K6 t
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.& f. k/ j0 O- Z1 \5 N7 h
They may teach you something you have never done.
) M7 j6 j: U. K* A2 G) R/ J" {They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
; F! O" n! J% B! R5 A2 b$ ?Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦( C+ t" F8 [2 a' V1 i, f$ a
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0 [& ]! a# A$ a& G6 \0 tLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:$ A0 j" g: V) e" s. F* A
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,. E4 F2 g3 q+ `/ L1 J' k l( w
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 k6 S3 o0 i! z3 B* U4 U6 s) p$ i$ @
Everything happens for a reason.
$ K- ^7 v% i/ L# RNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.# c# X0 l O2 _4 V! r! w
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
- W0 V' S0 w0 f) }0 ~( u2 `and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.) z1 O: r5 R+ j" c% o
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,( u' v/ Z9 f: o- a+ i2 y/ q: F
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
1 W) S: L& J8 U5 MTry to love them back unconditionally,0 i$ X+ z- {* q' B5 p7 S
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ m. \+ M0 o% h3 p! G* c
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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, |' {" A. g$ P. Z6 V: P; FThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,( q1 Q4 S! p( L" Z6 v' Z) ?! [
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
7 N, j% |# q: H8 d, [/ }8 U' OA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,) I% \: S6 ~8 i
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
% c E4 Q7 h3 j, h- D% kGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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