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' c- o3 A8 U/ | H' ]Sometimes people come into your life
, U5 [3 r" d2 T7 cyou know right away that they were meant to be there,! \: L) \& j9 [, H% t$ P
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 I L6 {' I- g! M: N1 x2 v8 t- z: C
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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! k0 }, L P0 p0 R+ }You never know who these people may be
, ]2 o! n& R" f- Wbut when you lock eyes with them,; V3 V$ {. f& r
you know at that very moment,3 R2 ]) R. G2 K. L ^+ v; k% D
2 z* m$ C. W# O/ ~They will affect your life in some profound way2 I+ E3 Y/ D4 @- E: X7 B
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!" B8 X; i) k- O
They are there for the reason you need them to be.) Z* u9 j* z- L, H2 i% T
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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$ w V% m( a2 P" L% f v* rThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.! ~& e( k- V( g. N& z, ?5 W
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
y" N A, ~+ {7 {0 w3 @0 }5 D- p7 G5 i! ]Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.1 A. Q' z# k& q, P' D0 Q. y
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/ [6 _5 q% @# I% _+ MWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
8 q) G1 {% {. m% r( m* E ?our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
6 T0 ^% i( t, V7 w+ {& q. @! O% \The prayer you sent up has been answered.
, y. N' q, V/ W* m N: x( `/ PAnd now it is time for you to move on.7 g0 k% ^+ I! C, N3 s4 c0 r/ ~
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Then people come into your life for a REASON* b b; F/ Y! n. [% g# ^0 s+ D% ` P* ]
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.+ F0 r6 W) l8 \% Y1 N
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 Z1 d0 c4 E! I/ y6 n3 `
They may teach you something you have never done.
; V2 c2 n, C h$ G! N% C9 OThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.& K! y) G% _6 i3 m. k0 z6 ]
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦! V' x8 V3 E3 Q% u# M% B
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
; _. I) [# d T) t# b) d0 z4 J. yYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,# L! k( V E# J2 W. O0 M( Y
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 m5 F$ ` G2 O+ D
Everything happens for a reason., F. { a8 u. J/ O# Q' ^4 Z: T8 @
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
4 r$ z1 _4 N+ t) t/ t- j4 bIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
; o4 J3 b$ f) d5 x m% H$ ~1 |and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.+ ?) Z4 n/ d1 A5 O" r
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,# B- D ~' l9 [& h; W) V
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
' Y" s4 y3 Z. l" v& DIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,9 M( A0 ^- |+ m6 f+ F% d
for they have helped you learn about trust* j9 a0 D8 \1 Y6 M4 w5 c8 E
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
. e! b/ E6 r; v" r5 k/ h5 hIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
0 J7 |/ Z( q L; {+ I6 tTry to love them back unconditionally,
& @; i6 h& D& ~6 Ynot only because they love you, but because in a way,
; y `+ N6 ~$ _: u. V' dthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.% E4 t& q' f# A# F) x
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 r. m- u! ~0 w0 z
7 k6 n! |7 Y) p9 _and a time to every purpose under the sun.
4 V4 V& C) \: SA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
9 s* x W$ N4 yand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# a8 W2 A' \2 n# m
God's grace is as a healing hand.+ ^! b: T* V# b: k0 \# [% ?5 j1 z
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
) T7 G' Y4 T4 B/ r K$ nthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
2 a7 w% p& @5 P' Fwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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