Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
; s$ J, l9 Z8 s- C8 v9 `Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3 c& z$ |6 Q  G# O6 b; z8 t5 b3.        Stay one step ahead
$ w/ [5 A0 l) s1 c5 F( hLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
+ X( i7 @+ w/ b1 A  V# TFrom no to yes

6 N7 f0 v6 s, d9 {+ n) `( t5 HWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1 V) _7 M& t( M3 K& E& J: @- ~1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
: _+ |0 R) f, H; P; QTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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