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THE STENCH OF HATRED ; g+ {+ s* O: G) Q8 ]
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. ( l8 m- B: g5 W& ?. w! M: x+ N. \) H
0 r- n, Q1 Z! m$ f' i# P: EThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic 5 V% N" R& }- z' j+ t
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name % b s% Z) `( V! H# ~# k8 f
3 S8 ^+ d0 V0 y4 Dof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates. - r' E+ O5 J1 |' I# T
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with - {2 d! x% I, ~9 e2 P5 i
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some ; Y2 l4 Z R/ `9 R
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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# ^5 | |9 c, B& dThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. # S$ U1 O+ V2 J- j# U
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain 6 x: q6 i, l, E v$ F
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 # b4 @; @# C2 ]0 y& h
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. ! z6 p" C7 k+ u
j6 c' S& g- z7 X9 R$ \6 ` yThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes . }3 _6 Q0 h6 k8 D9 }9 n) Y. u
' s! e( {/ E8 k( B* Ewith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and $ a; t+ q, X- k
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through $ S& z, S. x3 z* s7 r
; V6 E0 s j/ }1 t7 K8 V; ^5 Ahaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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/ j' Y, f( t* }7 pThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry $ T6 b( V* G; |6 @; C$ d6 y
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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* @+ t5 ]% [8 I& Vwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever * {- }" o& U; f; P4 j- s7 s# y
3 K- q7 ~5 ?( ~+ Q, G, f0 j/ myou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred ' G% h, W" T( f# g. P" l$ h
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in your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; # J. u* d9 l3 w- a* B: k/ n, U
+ F/ N, w* h1 @) y4 D! Iit is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness" |
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