买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. ; W9 m- k* R1 N* l W' o4 Z, z # _0 m0 _* ~7 |. u; S# H1 b不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。 9 g( k! j7 ?- B8 P