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Follow Your Dream
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. e) k4 ?) [' H, y+ x" AI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
# T+ @6 X2 J/ u: G3 P) KHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 8 @: M x4 @9 n4 K1 c
for youth at risk programs. 6 K/ I0 s% S W$ s, B/ ~/ L7 h0 U
# J/ e) M# ^3 M8 o. [The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you & E7 o, q" r. T( G1 r; M7 s
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young 6 h% I" e. d6 u8 G x
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
$ A8 ]) w. }" q0 w: lto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
* u6 [3 Q; P \* H/ Jhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
2 b0 T/ a- `4 M6 V% pWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted * ^- d% g7 @7 H& E' \5 f
to be and do when he grew up. 3 ]( V( d" r Z; \4 t
" W) |2 T# e5 }) h# T( b9 h'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
( h n: u5 L$ Mowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 9 C. d) O5 s5 W4 u* T1 u, P
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, ! G& q1 [4 M; \5 H6 H2 |
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 0 p( A: v9 _8 j9 e y6 a
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
5 u& O6 I# t% ^6 I; o! S* Q; Ahanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. ) y4 t7 T. L0 g
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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z! h) _* N6 }9 u- m/ r$ Y'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, : m. F, j. x9 F( p) |
`Why did I receive an F?' ! Q* Q% ?, W+ w( W/ b. [5 W
- \. D( v3 c2 p$ O0 f" V: p'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
$ `8 J0 K9 t; A) ]: VYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 6 S! ^- z; a E n H0 J; S
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. + f; j& H$ ~( w3 }- W
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
: w7 ^/ x7 o5 r' O p, p& U% Hpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 8 _* K1 _" i4 L, Q ^& I
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
8 @5 }8 F) `8 n; w. }: f: breconsider your grade.’ & @+ D( K# [6 E0 p+ X6 Q
0 D6 R7 a7 s- U- O; J9 J& m'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father ) _$ p. [! m8 ~3 x7 |9 G) E6 `
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
3 k% |2 S7 b# u3 |% D8 X% |1 d5 gown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 3 r# A8 N* {+ y+ [3 k" W# B( O
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
8 Z% i2 `9 o# @# k; r2 r0 q5 i' j: kpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll $ p# |" b5 M' Q3 c/ d, `. |
keep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story / a$ k( h8 B* e ]# p
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of + k5 l* w* m' m. E" Z
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ; o0 n5 d) q5 |* w( h& ]
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this " Y n, M/ U1 D/ @4 j" Y( ~
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 7 [$ D) g' f8 d$ n" {) L$ P5 ?2 Z
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption 3 ^% t- ]- \1 L$ u' X
not to give up on yours.’' , a7 p% m, r, y5 F8 v5 g' h& F9 o; r/ y
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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