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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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4 @% `0 r5 S1 P( ^! FHow are you?
6 M: a2 H) \5 A4 SFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine". f0 y2 ~9 F. _# J: L' _1 z
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Fine, thanks.
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* X+ i& E0 D2 Z! l2 _This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.8 b+ }- e" H. \8 }3 [0 m
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.$ x1 T5 s7 H, v+ `% W
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Great! How are you doing?" p/ k/ Q! q% w& b# t4 m
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation., n3 [; b9 s6 y/ [8 m; a
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I'm hanging in there.. Y. `) O% c- G( |! g* ?; J
& b4 C( v0 F6 _0 T8 jThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.8 [" a" u# E- m' s
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I've been better.8 q- U; g4 `- [4 [0 ^2 [& ]7 |
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+ u& ?; O# E$ V1 R f# ]B: I've been better.
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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, u: m# Z4 d; g2 B' c5 pHow's it going?
" Q' ^$ V! x2 X* T+ n- fThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.) d' B! n) [# d8 z
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"& L9 K# T( Q. s
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 9 ]; O- \! v2 B( }
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What's up?
" G* d0 E( S2 i9 e# _This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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1 @5 F' |- F5 R3 X! u$ V' xNot a lot.
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: E3 M2 V* e# A& iThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.+ U7 h7 S( p0 ]) F* m9 q
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+ i2 L! [0 N. Z# Y: U6 ]7 D8 k* zThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.0 I' E! P: `' Q) y) Y+ J0 d
' v6 k2 j5 P9 L/ ?Oh, just the usual.2 q$ A- {6 B" [3 b9 u p+ A7 F# B% b) O
0 Z$ n0 [9 N/ p' p9 {Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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/ p8 `& Q7 f, O9 ZJust the same old same old.; J1 ?$ Z0 L9 U$ E" y* b
/ l+ v5 C! J$ uThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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6 }% a0 a, ~: M/ R8 OOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!) [' O& o# T4 Z0 Y9 `1 u1 [
) r4 S: U0 j4 T% M9 LYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.8 X/ }$ l5 J% I4 S6 r6 `: w5 T
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: P- Y- a, I8 m1 VThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way. F/ c. S8 y( r& T
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