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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters }% W) q$ F. x: K- I8 E
7 T- J: |1 W5 @) v- `% G- w3 ^; O9 zThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.) W3 H3 d) s( f9 Y+ y& E+ P. [
2 n" c3 C3 f4 y' I: _: @, XYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"% k6 T1 o) l# h+ \( R- _9 V% F# F
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How are you?* G+ o/ u# P9 r
Fine.7 n9 u, ?' [8 @2 [/ z5 L* E1 l: G
/ e5 X4 f. s G# j* xThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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7 r( W+ r2 `5 Z2 |$ T3 E! U/ hNot bad.% e0 h! W$ k- B( ?" g" Y# _
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".0 Q3 W8 j( v# C4 O' ~" h
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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/ p; g5 X* p: }* XVery well, thanks.
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- H: Y d- U( s, C8 q0 }7 W) ~% Z5 s9 oA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.1 G' R% }3 ^7 @ l5 I0 Q
% }- @( v5 v: d- NPretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.% H }7 \! ]* N$ Q& m- g6 D
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Great! How are you doing?
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3 I5 t3 S) f$ K# `! }6 YThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation. c! J$ C! r. r
' `; t0 ^* v2 _" l) S, [I'm hanging in there.! R7 P; t8 H1 X# s I6 Y9 s1 m
% ] G) O, a# p: s' QThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.! T* b6 ^) S7 X' O- e
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I've been better.
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, p, V3 U0 a& _0 G5 I' W* u ~People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:5 X0 s) X. H9 L
2 ]6 y2 Q8 w3 ^' o4 cA: How are you?' C1 K1 J1 E5 w% y1 \+ p
/ c; j p5 v6 Y; G4 } h+ HB: I've been better.
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% t! D% L# A3 N sA: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
2 I! f' o; W! b) Y5 \* ]This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.5 \+ _4 h) q! |1 y0 K( w
' H5 F0 \1 X0 ?3 r+ K: RHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"% I j+ \7 N8 z/ b; ^' Z& t
- L( a$ ]% y+ C7 y1 kIt's going well. ' E8 t& s: S# Z# F& }- w0 ~2 g M
9 e3 A- v' E& v9 xThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. . f/ S9 q' [8 T
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/ Y' w- }' F. a gThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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1 a% f+ a8 M; S- {/ Z* T4 ]Nothing much.
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% T* U2 w# H& h! @# r: O; G+ BThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.", w$ p( r1 J) V/ v
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Not a lot.
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+ D, G4 e- E, S6 `, m1 k, oThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.* B- c) g' S G# A
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Oh, just the usual.# y( `) {# Y- x. p; B
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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, ~: I J0 M6 `& iJust the same old same old.
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) f5 \( r' |2 M5 {% h( fThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.8 M3 l" ]- W- c
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!, _8 G3 o, e ~1 ~* u
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.' E) ?# {" O- j; }4 _, g
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way." K2 @: ^3 ^9 v
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