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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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! ~1 s: `# j- p! o4 n* Oshaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
6 ?3 |6 l- d; xnursing home today. ' _+ M! ?+ E7 x" ^
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
5 ^4 V& E& j/ _$ ~2 X* Q. {After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
* y* P6 S' l4 w4 ~+ M/ uhe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. 0 d+ f3 U; @: g4 B& M
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As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 3 l7 a# |; z- i" |6 g) K
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
! N- S5 {. u* Z. y7 i% `* X R9 yhung on his window. . U0 |! _( a% i2 r* ?% W
; u0 ~) \& o. S" @& ^8 m"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having + Y5 S, ?! Q) {; M0 A. t; u- g
just been presented with a new puppy. 8 X; V( ^0 c, ?
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." % x2 t' v7 [. `2 d% I# H( `9 b
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
. q+ J" m. L) yroom or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
) e3 Q/ s. d r6 I: VI arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 6 e7 s- t1 B4 q. A! h% ~$ M& i
8 [# `. b/ Y, R. W: LI have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I 8 g. A; L$ Y+ a4 K1 D& `5 |
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
4 \, C4 j! Z+ c% q+ T/ nand be thankful for the ones that do.
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
4 h3 b; u* n4 i# x: `: [day and all the happy memories I've stored away. ! p/ ?& X( P8 e% A& S
0 n! z& O3 l- ]6 c, QJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. ; G! T9 H: W# |# I
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank ; ]6 r$ h* D# z8 T& d0 D
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. + W, l4 X& |$ q( Z! D% i
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 3 X# i0 v) M' @& g" T4 C
7 Y8 A6 u$ D; e3 [* i& Y 1. Free your heart from hatred. . R4 t3 P( z Z' k9 ^4 |! @
2. Free your mind from worries.
) J6 C0 u- A* h* t 3. Live simply. ! g. p5 Q% H# o1 V5 d. H3 x
4. Give more. 3 |- J2 p$ T- b2 r B% \5 F
5. Expect less. |
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