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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
- `9 O8 k$ i! t5 A) x% F# r* N兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 ' }- O5 ?& P9 u
老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 8 I0 E, i* H) G+ o6 j7 P7 b
! r6 _5 g2 [: a, B& @3 cThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. , n. j$ R, ]6 S9 F& `/ J
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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H3 R. P9 d* I7 U9 i) yA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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