It's fine to have one. 7 u- t* }: H/ N7 yIt's fine to be proud of it.9 O! B! ?: \* I6 }3 F$ d% O
But please don't whip it out in public and start waving it around,. e7 i2 O2 Z$ ^' t3 B+ u2 Y
And PLEASE don't try to shove it down my children's throats.