The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to& t4 h, Z/ N7 o+ j. k
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear % c1 Q* v# ]9 y: rthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what ! J9 G/ V4 I9 g& p; l6 ayou're going to say next or worrying about what others will 6 k+ G# @4 Q. A! k" H5 B% `think of you. / D$ k, h/ a; m- m: b$ R+ X. i! N& F % @" N# Q+ |% i1 O2 z3 F5 FUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first4 q$ s- x- l* o* Q! I) ~- D1 J
names: - d: B0 J: |. B% C% l f" C1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.- ^' Q- r9 M: Y' R: h' j
2) The second second: Don't think about what to . }& ?2 ?/ k9 Nsay—listen for the name.* \1 i; I L: x1 J" s3 k6 S
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud." @2 c& ~6 F% z
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know a' I. n: X0 n) twith the same name.% c5 R6 P( H2 K7 M8 a1 S% v
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the o/ G( d- @& r# M: k/ y
end of the conversation. 3 J: G$ _) p+ a; P5 | ) v, @! ^( F6 G5 Z) a---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>