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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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think of you.) v7 {( G% y& Y/ V0 v
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first9 b% D8 }) B8 W
names:
2 a/ l3 P, J& T8 c+ E1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
1 {5 v" ]- {- ?2 k+ {4 S- g2) The second second: Don't think about what to' b1 B5 ?7 r# M) z0 N% P
say—listen for the name.
e7 l" Q# M8 h( t) j3 S8 {2 w3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.% P8 x$ y A# G' ~( m, X
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
}1 Y, v! K! b4 Twith the same name.5 `& B3 q( h/ S$ w8 O0 J
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the" _( S4 J% _. u) E: B2 S- c6 g4 f
end of the conversation.+ l$ A) _; ? m a% e4 o
% ^" O1 } x# F: m J* i---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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