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发表于 2008-8-27 22:44 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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I would like to take this chance to talk about the issues of how to make a last and profound conversation with locals since some friends have complained that they only have the ability to do the short talks with co-workers or strangers. I call the short talk the Cold War, meaning it is a long last personal struggle or an impossible mission. I still remember I have encountered few embarrass seniors few years ago, but things are getting better year after year. Since this summer, I start to feel very comfortable as I chat with people I met every day. For example, I need to find some info around the place I just moved in. While I was driving around the blocks this afternoon, I saw a good lady was mending her yard. She was the only person I can find, so I decided to talk to this lady. I parked the car and greeted to her. I asked her about the neighborhood such as banks, supermarkets and so on. She answered me with her best capability. Then she invited me to her condo to have a little chat. She wrote down some of the contact names and the numbers of her friends in case I need more help and told me about few neighbor’s stories. At the end, I got plenty of information than I intended to. It all came very natural and our conversation was quite enjoyable.$ y# \* P9 S1 Z! ?, S7 Z. U

/ t, d5 d: D1 FSo here are some of self-made rules which have worked well for me.6 T8 `% Y' O' Z$ \6 ^- q
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Every morning, practice the chat and image that you are both A and B actors or actresses:' C! o+ C, q( E4 p' s
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Day 1: Good morning, Sandra (You)  }; C9 K+ ~! P. O& i
            Good morning, Ming. How are you? (Co-worker)
! |3 }: p" a  G( r* f  i5 G            I am fine, thanks!       (You)6 `! v5 h7 x# m

8 N0 q" s, g. m% R- rDay 2: Repeat  Day 1 (You)6 c( U% o3 g; o! [! c( p& x
            Repeat  Day 1 (Co-worker)9 @# v) s" X  ^
            I am fine, and how are you. (You)9 E5 H4 U, A1 P5 I4 R) @3 X
            Not too bad, I like your shirt; it looks gorgers (Co-Worker)$ K, a7 \* T& h- C. \! h
            Thanks, I bought it from China last summer. (You)
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Day 3: Repeat5 t8 j  C! X0 p& s1 X
            Repeat( g# ~1 ?3 |( u- {2 C2 o- H$ j+ o$ @
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            I could not be better, Thank god it is Friday. (Co-worker)
/ `% ?- u6 b/ n. _2 Z; L- X* J            Finally, so do you have plan for the weekend? (You)
8 p3 f. M8 H: E5 v7 S# I$ B' V6 K            Oh, ya, I am going to visit my mother-in-law even I hates her, but my husband will make me to see her. (Co-worker)8 `, p' ^+ J( a+ P2 \
           Poor you, oh, I wish you have a good weekend, and come back with a good mood. You know what I mean. (You)
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Next Monday: Repeat
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                        How was your weekend? (You)8 i* |- \# ~9 G/ w4 ^; i7 ^& ^
                        Not bad. My mother-in-law was so tolerable this time, and she made a big super. So we all sit outside and enjoyed the beautiful day with family. (Co-worker)' s" L5 ^6 B5 V, e
                        Is that right? Where does your mother-in-law live? (You)
7 h& T- O1 i" c; t) ~: h                        Pigeon Lake. It was packed on the weekend. (Co-worker)
( H: {% S. Q+ \4 S                        Oh, Pigeon Lake, I have been there once and we caught some good fish.# ~5 Z! v2 H9 T
                        Really, I don’t know you like fishing, may be you should come with me next time.
7 G; n- ]% Z4 [/ T* g6 x5 t/ F4 S$ I                        Great idea and I will. y+ s8 }; S. G( y( B1 m: a
                        Bla—Bla—Bla
/ t3 H/ R; ^5 H8 C; d- l0 K* t5 V                        Then you see the boss walking by4 z6 s/ P3 Z' I+ w& V
                         It is time to stop.
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The above mentioned examples are under daily small talks or gossip category.  The serious business conversation will be with another topic.
& [9 b0 J0 D9 f4 X% t  xAnd I advise everyone should find the way that works best for her/him.
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[ 本帖最后由 Matrix 于 2008-8-27 23:47 编辑 ]
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