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Sometimes people come into your life% v; W- [8 X# s+ z- U4 u, |9 \
you know right away that they were meant to be there,9 e7 M! E% w5 e' }" Z& \2 L6 X
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 f5 Y% Q0 P8 x! ?/ q0 _
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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6 I i; H4 z# _8 h- cYou never know who these people may be
" r* Z7 V" P/ g/ R: Mbut when you lock eyes with them,
( p' X' G4 I+ X9 Ayou know at that very moment,. N" y0 ~- r( q+ _1 J/ e1 q! X6 o& R& P
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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' Q: r5 @) l, k# ?8 g) jThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
$ Y5 g# f6 p* Q* o- e+ c; H$ j$ _They are there for the reason you need them to be.
4 |4 A* J2 @2 i1 A B2 O7 J1 tThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,( v6 c0 w% _7 N6 s/ E) S0 F
; n) g6 \% u6 Y8 J) s2 Y8 C- TThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 D4 t0 o& e" B( a, sSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.$ q4 z. U9 a. l# u
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.% j3 _; f+ _/ f8 U K
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,9 Y/ r* @' i% Q$ F; T/ o
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
% c: q0 Q- N! E" x) O, LThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
" P5 o. `3 c% X* v( w8 @8 }6 f AAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON X% h6 `6 s1 k; p5 y' a4 V
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.4 H9 W9 Y S1 ]
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. B+ [( q+ [& I* J
They may teach you something you have never done.! K$ K8 }4 F) y
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
8 r$ f& G. S4 W6 ~* Q* c: I8 KBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦, J% T/ Z, j5 E6 _3 g* n
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% [5 M3 T% B: L( hLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
) X2 `4 t$ A6 w7 S/ I0 k5 K; B! vYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
6 O, S) c, l$ z* ~3 i3 ?Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
! o7 z. Z5 X( a( q- i1 J' YEverything happens for a reason.% c; k& ^3 a2 d+ H7 v
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
2 F; P, | m1 d% ~9 N# W4 eIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
( i5 \ z" |* C4 m4 U" H' o2 Iand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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( s) ~5 u+ i+ }% O6 i5 G5 \; \9 xIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
4 | @7 ~" ^+ x8 C- ~. `! f9 vYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,3 M$ [; E6 {( X7 o
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,& n: Q3 J9 I) [
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 L" J7 x1 J, H) A
Try to love them back unconditionally,& Y" O2 z7 p8 E
not only because they love you, but because in a way,, F: F3 }; o; n
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.0 r* i% E3 E/ [/ \3 F- E2 F
7 |6 Y3 _7 T* |* c7 c8 Y2 sThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,) a" f8 o- G' ^, O9 x
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
* c& I% e/ t E q3 ~( R! ]+ IA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
$ v' O8 X4 ^( J+ n& }3 \and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
" G. r: T; j O: I9 @0 {8 H% {God's grace is as a healing hand.
' ^1 r$ \: h$ fAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,' A# Z( V+ j- d- I
the warm memories and love for those we have lost# Z* t' X) D7 y# W: ~) k
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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