Stop saying no to your toddlers

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From no to yes

. g1 {  j4 D* V& ]* [. HWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

0 Q! S$ g9 D$ V6 d& b7 N1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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+ R9 ?; L9 S) c! r- ~* {* T2.        Speak up when she’s good
, L$ m5 D& c' dIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

! H0 Q& b! k/ b) t) V3.        Stay one step ahead
9 y7 m9 D" N! c2 r3 M- ^Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
1 Y. a9 ~% ?/ F" a, |3 {From no to yes
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, l& p, p1 |( Y# WWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
& }9 \9 ]) A' P9 t2 _Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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