Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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+ p3 q! t, Y3 mWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

4 ?9 j2 D8 k) l1 f* n1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
  m. v( \  I) Z, _# f1 g: yTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

2.        Speak up when she’s good
: z  Q/ `9 i* K6 Z+ T; M/ \% NIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

* a2 ~- W# [) d* B+ C& j3.        Stay one step ahead
% t0 f6 z$ Y# JLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

/ `9 r* Q- S0 cWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
# ~" U5 a  b+ F& j' L
4 Q4 Z, ^; i+ d/ R! M1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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