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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED & B1 v1 c* \4 T5 c& F

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2 V" o+ P; ?: Y$ b8 zA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 9 W/ ~3 ]& ^2 E- B/ O

7 k3 k# A8 w- o4 kThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic + j! s8 L. I/ S! e8 Z4 ?

8 P$ ?7 ~5 ]; C" N1 i( i9 g2 z, dbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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! t* P. e! o& m- G( ^+ Fof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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9 \) M) o9 ?5 Ua child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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+ b4 X# ?) q+ a+ @& S2 Yof people he/she hates. ! W7 o# K9 W: T/ q. X$ f( u0 s, l; L. q0 b
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with * _1 _, U/ Y# N- `( z% m' n! T
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some   n' H8 D* _9 [5 d" M/ S' Q, {; e( i

7 A. S% P% z; f3 E  T9 L6 T3 while some up to 5 potatoes. % U7 A+ K( `! t! S. Y7 \: y% {% Y
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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- W( h1 ~  w) u2 D8 rDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain 3 S( ~2 ~+ y( {' q
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, & p, P0 l) l% R  \- o

( Y; K! }! S# i& Q: X0 S, dthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 5 _5 t5 T( c; n$ D% o' @' M

4 @0 F% Z/ b: f  hweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes * M; D: ^3 \$ O/ e( T5 p
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and - T, N) m2 F; }( s1 ^% @9 b
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. ) D' t" i8 b, t

& W; v. e0 j; Y* ]$ PThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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; F: t3 ?; n; N3 j5 ?$ xwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever $ r0 j% g+ p2 n' z+ d' a( ^! z8 L

; A' a( Q6 C& A, pyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just # V& @" z/ Q3 X0 j; Z

0 ^: g  i: j+ |1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 7 c+ o, k4 [( S( s# A% n/ ]
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in your heart for your lifetime???" ' [8 L1 x* i; Y" ~! y# ~7 y

$ ]; j7 Z2 F; u% W% ]% |; Z% `; m"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; 2 L  {4 w+ w/ ~% g( n; `

* T/ ?# z; a! E" q8 K7 Oit is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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