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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. * v( R* N; o& I$ e3 H" k" o! c

( {1 y8 h' q3 o) U% ]The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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: ~, ?, Y3 K# w- u& A9 W( `of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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( q4 \# y3 O. _" e: ?. Aa child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number & q. k0 i; i; H; K  Z/ V7 @% K
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of people he/she hates. / g5 z- B. C# K8 n

" n- o( H$ h5 FSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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+ ^# p: @) f9 }, P( B3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes ; N5 ?' @( }5 n  T; a' P0 e

. S* [0 C  q% H3 ?- N( Yin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain ) v* G( N* l0 H" q% g; c

8 w% ^0 P3 k  w4 xdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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' P1 i3 B; K* W$ u: Gthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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+ Z$ |  z9 f; O6 z; w: ^% Gweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.   E, S9 q5 |. A# k
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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$ y$ K9 Z# s% o  t8 V  r4 Fwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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0 Z( N, Q, M9 T% sstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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# c& w( z, U( ~/ e) T4 r, }Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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3 z' _" M2 F+ [, KThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 9 R6 g  p# Q/ Y) ~# V& j
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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2 V* I3 |6 s8 j% mwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred : N/ j$ t3 E$ J: L

. m8 f/ l+ B5 min your heart for your lifetime???"
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7 K3 Y( F% ?4 T" I"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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. v# ]. O8 ]3 Q& j6 Hit is something you do for yourself. / v" a5 `3 [' l) G+ ~% Y
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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