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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. - _4 T6 m5 o5 W5 C, q: M' s: M

  Z  G: U( O) QThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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7 I, X& C8 [: q7 U  lbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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5 {) r1 W" U' n* e6 Sa child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number 8 ~7 E) K. l. h0 x
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of people he/she hates. $ ?: d, w$ c0 w7 p4 g% l

+ h! Y) S2 e0 D) x& TSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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, c4 V7 b2 [" Y7 ?the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 0 ^9 h" e/ m" p
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes. ' v* w- o, }9 s3 E1 b
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain 0 e: @1 V% H* n" U+ k) _
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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: b- f9 c8 Z% M% d% W  s9 J0 H! ?The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes 7 n5 X9 j0 j3 d6 L
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry 3 p% l# c9 B# `6 \5 u+ V) {* A5 i. d

* _8 x% R& E9 f+ s! v' N3 J  iyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred & k" {1 K# p5 W+ M4 R# c6 O, \
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will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just + l0 |1 T* L2 E# @* R

  c7 S( I* Z' h9 }4 K1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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# G: W7 ~. L) P"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; ' p( N2 e& Q8 _. ^1 q
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it is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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