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0 g" h1 @) v0 PHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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' Y# r: D" |* t% lThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.5 N9 a4 K2 A* i8 ~' p( k( M
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"' c E4 }7 Q' B8 w& T
1 i1 G$ o5 u0 s) t2 hHow are you?
1 c7 W. F, u- ? CFine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.7 {* } S# k' D8 a# {" v9 v
0 @9 b9 ~" D& J3 `Not bad.4 b9 ^8 X5 L) p( s' T. [( Y( n( p
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".7 F; T7 G2 }; W6 Q' ?3 K6 o
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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% C' A2 Y P) z/ TVery well, thanks.1 l) j: ~6 d* ?" C2 M
7 B( p( g, ]5 p9 KA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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/ H4 {' Q; X: p8 ?. t$ fIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.9 u! i" t* J, I4 o1 z ^2 I2 u
9 X2 y6 S6 v7 d: |8 U# u) r* KGreat! How are you doing?! ?2 c4 s( n0 O& n) W" Q
H& s% y. H; r0 {This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation., ^' r3 ~8 k& ]$ u C
2 p% s0 e- l, F; e" A/ d; AI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.: i; v- j* y+ D- i
8 Z# t8 `5 V U+ S" Q9 y! R1 WI've been better.2 A" z; k3 h$ o( w6 m
8 O* v# S1 W3 D5 |; Y: O, @People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:( W6 _* M' ^' L
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A: How are you?$ M A% H; Q' b H c
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?+ K% z9 {% l3 k# S4 N4 _
( Y/ t/ g- W+ Y; v* x$ xB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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3 g) O* e! h+ uHow's it going?
% l! \! {0 f8 I* VThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.% ~$ @0 R* {1 j! i
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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+ u9 r$ E. P c$ A& \It's going well. 7 c# V1 ?$ a A! n. ]
3 r7 D% Z5 `9 V& ]% p3 M/ h! WThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ! s' |) |6 K% m& Y3 X
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What's up?+ ^; I6 {$ Q) c' H3 E
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:2 B( z9 ?* c7 F( i
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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4 T* T9 X% ? Q3 K# [6 ]Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.4 f4 M, W# C. }% m0 S
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4 x( f* Z" \6 ]! E. b! v/ q4 [6 tThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.) N* d+ |) {4 j0 V! h, S# a p
: }1 D: x0 H6 P3 ?! q& EOh, just the usual.
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% C2 D M; l: C; Y! N/ @Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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' k1 ~7 i" b9 M0 }- |' W; XJust the same old same old.
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# G3 f& H9 j" i# Y" k6 D3 J% R6 y! I& EThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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- t/ ^7 W2 c1 G' W3 j0 K8 iOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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6 v# }- l0 K: v; xYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.3 e: I( F/ B* ^0 [
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What's happening?
3 I8 L/ g7 e; W# U. [This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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