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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters9 k- t. P2 t4 J2 ~7 d8 r
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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% c) ~2 m) j1 f9 m" F1 A- lYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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How are you?5 B/ [0 A) z B: u6 l6 t5 @' Y, o
Fine.9 S ^1 E! m2 n' i9 z3 i/ m
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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- O* Z: h$ g4 e0 @8 z9 w) gThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.. \4 |8 w5 w7 N! L1 E
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.9 L) L: x$ O- N3 A! q1 F
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9 M, |' n# ]7 C8 V& M# oIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.) f8 W0 ~5 [% e8 J) k% _- i. c
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Great! How are you doing?# K% w& i, b# I& q4 q- s6 ]
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.- I8 H0 p0 m" \" Y. U
* t3 W1 t. A7 s. {' T1 VThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.
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- Q k& ^' }; ^! @( ?2 P: @$ r% RPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:" |, V4 T/ w* p0 y
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A: How are you?5 y2 w: M; D) j3 w/ t$ ?' R! {
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?' B* ]- x& t# p. |' ^2 S
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2 x9 X3 [! A) [( KHow's it going?( N( `, h/ n h( {0 ^1 w2 V
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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0 n! J- C, _- w3 A5 u, H9 `Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"% i8 M* H3 r! u! o: z/ N5 Y" \. I
$ j* I: M4 u" `1 j/ i+ Q/ t# EIt's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ; _4 M- W# H8 p
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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0 B& ]/ J5 x! Z7 K( @This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.; A, X/ {0 O8 N" w! }
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.0 G7 p- A! {5 [- Q! l1 D
; V5 \0 q* \6 v( Z, U; X$ [Oh, just the usual.) v) A( _& S% W# Y1 A
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.5 p9 T/ ~( ~& [+ V
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.7 F: X" Z% H0 K2 s$ S8 Z$ i
" E4 |! ^( r' P8 kOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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8 c5 I# s$ i' B- J: bYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.: w& g* p( `+ ]: O
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What's happening?
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