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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.5 c/ Y. m4 {2 Q
3 J( G/ P: `: _8 f2 a: _You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".2 `1 d* b7 Y+ F9 l
2 i: q; { d# m9 L' q; ZFine, thanks.2 ~/ | M! _+ C$ S% B* Z9 A4 v
$ U: {: b9 T/ e# p; nThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.6 f7 q& d" r, d; h5 F! f& d# p9 ]
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Very well, thanks.
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$ ]- a1 V3 v( G! g9 e" J( aA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language./ ]3 {& E) I* |( u9 x. ~4 q0 K
3 Q8 s; _) B8 P$ t& q) VPretty good.
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! N* y) j& J, p% l6 A; e" G! `If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.* G' ^$ s" R/ u7 @
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Great! How are you doing?
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* M! g1 _9 ~$ v$ |. B) pThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.. \3 w- a2 f$ b: `
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I'm hanging in there.
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2 S8 k- I( \& }( E! GThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.! r K A: M% P9 K, a) z( m- w
' L( x B/ p6 vI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:" I" p$ x4 E l$ E o2 h# W& P+ r1 V
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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6 U+ O! |7 {4 h% J5 ^7 i: BHow's it going?# ?% `* f- m c9 |* E5 W/ x
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well. P _8 U# A) ~: ?- x) u" ]* o
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ; c( H9 A. S9 d
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What's up?
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."7 u# k5 i6 D4 F# N& Q; ]( M
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common./ ^6 e( |) Y4 y1 N+ L
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude., D' U7 F& F) w* K; k& Z k! r+ t1 e
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Oh, just the usual." u* m1 B( y3 R# S! w3 ^. l
* }9 K5 L+ h; O! p% r; gAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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$ V+ E4 m% P1 zJust the same old same old.
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! M" y# l$ R1 i( A& i& w8 l9 c6 @This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it./ a9 B# a- c& y8 m; ^
; Y. l- b6 @$ _Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!' ?8 w; P4 U4 w; E
% D+ |; V* W$ Z, \ \You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
' ]/ i6 ]9 Z: R, M, ^, QThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.0 u. w, G1 \- J$ C/ C
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