It's fine to have one. 4 z4 a+ _: a" u& d/ FIt's fine to be proud of it.% d4 T) y3 _$ q5 ]: p- \: W
But please don't whip it out in public and start waving it around,% |* g% Q6 S/ U$ _* E& Q
And PLEASE don't try to shove it down my children's throats.