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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to% p7 t3 z/ e0 W7 U: z% ^4 d; C' z9 p
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
" W" ~" ^4 Y, f- C/ c- U5 Fthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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5 H4 M1 X* x1 A6 [Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first/ t4 Y$ M7 J3 x# c# Y4 q) j( W6 \
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.( H/ `& f K+ g" q% _
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
) v" }5 i' z; P( \, z4 t8 l, O4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the7 Z. w# n7 E/ B1 l* O& f
end of the conversation.
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0 I# \5 ]% K3 @; d---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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