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9 Z1 V( ^) r" m" Z9 ]6 s~SOMETIMES~ }! ?- }2 f& s, K
( ?, B" i; H# d1 U0 ?9 h. PSometimes people come into your life
1 t3 J! I; e. B5 E7 tyou know right away that they were meant to be there,/ u0 f) H* J" g. i
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,8 ]9 I/ a! A- a
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be." X4 y }/ q t1 H- R
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You never know who these people may be
) j) c z8 |2 S6 Qbut when you lock eyes with them,: b8 ~# K) B. G& p6 y) O
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way4 b4 C9 |0 d# Q4 T4 N
* T' w: j6 c( @7 NThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
! u0 I* q) }% K R& A" C5 }They are there for the reason you need them to be.
, o2 H+ r2 j& }/ lThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,$ Z+ o6 s* e& w( m3 `$ x7 _# O( n0 @
: Y0 R1 H/ _0 \, a" sThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 f' r d- y, z i1 s
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.& G9 u, E9 p+ E5 _6 e3 Z2 Z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.$ H% o2 o+ j# p2 r; ? t
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,. }& t' E1 x1 j6 ?0 H
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.; r2 {% \. D3 v
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
+ A$ J, a/ h R5 xAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON- R# Y; x3 P9 |0 i/ m8 t( }' t+ X
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
/ r5 ]7 i: U0 p3 E4 gThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.' k# R+ M' p; k0 @. }1 N5 `; i
They may teach you something you have never done.5 {7 P1 Y' U" |* e* X9 Z8 R
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.7 z; {* L6 H# O) ?2 @* S
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
+ u% q0 `6 R, y3 o( B' i0 O2 LYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,0 l0 e8 M& a6 ~3 f
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
2 K4 @# S& p# {4 u# f7 z+ P) wEverything happens for a reason.
% b" j, y4 O8 g: w6 |, }& t& Q4 E/ o$ NNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.* C2 Q: P. w% d! c9 M: i2 G/ C
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,6 S2 b- |$ J8 y. e2 c. g
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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( L5 M$ G' B, }$ C/ L1 TIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,% D) W E2 _; f2 q0 m/ y. N9 s4 F
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
# |5 O3 R4 E0 \If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
' ^7 w$ E6 N" ]9 Ufor they have helped you learn about trust2 |) X' {$ z z
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.$ p0 p% F& P$ \8 y" ~+ H
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,* G5 G: N' L6 l$ A& O/ h. I
Try to love them back unconditionally,
4 {4 L1 Q Z9 o8 K# l. z0 Cnot only because they love you, but because in a way,, n) P5 x% S+ l9 C, y1 t. e3 J* o
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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, x/ m" Q% d8 ~# {, w0 OThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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9 _' W' h G4 O A, ^3 Mand a time to every purpose under the sun.
# r# y f0 {! Y! FA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
1 z. u: S9 d, s2 F4 xand a time to pluck up that which is planted...": z7 j% D: O0 v% O' z. H% c
God's grace is as a healing hand.
6 W: y, I4 a/ q+ o) w8 KAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,! j$ |0 Y' W( s, g5 U8 N
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
8 T$ c9 O3 Q. v2 Awill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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