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Sometimes people come into your life
, w' ]3 R+ Q: X% c& x" @you know right away that they were meant to be there,( a6 I, x4 J, {2 x `2 x
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,1 r1 r/ K* Q4 K6 A( ?
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.; u4 z% |; U" g: f/ g Y+ ~
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You never know who these people may be
' |, `4 K3 f2 D7 ^$ W5 O# Q3 j/ {3 }but when you lock eyes with them,
1 f9 A; ? `1 M% |you know at that very moment,/ c3 c& {" U' k
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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: \& h8 i$ ]; T- x0 {They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# J& |( F& t" J3 k
They are there for the reason you need them to be.' x0 g7 M5 j; G8 F$ q3 v
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,$ j9 F2 K4 z. L) k' S0 e- d$ z
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.1 F+ x& N0 J/ M* L
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
; P. Z4 K5 A b2 U% LSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand./ e4 c6 W! A0 a9 a Q; q5 H" B' `$ ~
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,. `1 ~- K* Y4 e# d/ }6 Z
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.7 {" d- o" b: y+ F7 r
The prayer you sent up has been answered.4 M" g6 M! |! ]9 [! c7 H
And now it is time for you to move on.
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; V6 _: C. }. l1 X# d/ i: EThen people come into your life for a REASON
/ I+ M2 H$ k) OBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.( Y2 l3 Y d0 N
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
* M7 n2 m! O v5 J5 l; m, B5 k4 eThey may teach you something you have never done.$ p5 R q, R, Y* C$ ?9 B5 Z. U5 J' x
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
' I+ p' t$ L8 w8 fBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦% g7 o3 h: A9 N# b* Q0 k
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
0 j0 g* r! `1 ]8 y- p' _1 p$ Q+ ]Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
7 i' l) a! z9 T1 ^7 Y' u0 o b6 MPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.' H( L. p) z! ~% a' Y6 j2 p) U2 j$ X
Everything happens for a reason.5 j) N, H5 {) R8 `+ n
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 V# Q3 H. _# j3 c, i" |0 l) ?
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
2 b% T; j* X# q6 fand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, B+ V. ^, }4 ~# j6 W6 Y. i
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
, Q% i% j* c6 M% [If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
! K4 [2 R i/ B/ qfor they have helped you learn about trust
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( |4 h% N5 S5 g( m* n2 D6 GIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
9 P+ [. X1 t! OTry to love them back unconditionally,
/ c, X3 f# t4 a" D1 @not only because they love you, but because in a way,% j. P5 B( D, q( d* s. {
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,* w7 G8 w/ e: Y5 t$ a, {& R
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.) i1 j+ |- Z4 b% I9 z" v
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.# f, {: h4 S7 L0 q: A) r
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,! c0 A) f9 J$ _9 ^! l! d
the warm memories and love for those we have lost! r1 \- b2 J9 _& C
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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