Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

5 @' X& X1 O6 q( Q: iWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

; X2 V- Q, ~" U8 ]1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
0 k  \1 p" N; z, }6 x  QTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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  {' a2 A* Q) y3 d2.        Speak up when she’s good
# ]5 y$ n( G5 f& PIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

' l, ]: B8 p5 @! T7 @3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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3 s5 m0 G2 j2 c& V) V& X* NWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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