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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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3 b' h6 p  ~" u0 E9 Y5 F! }+ SA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. . r% V6 b  Z8 C- q& }8 D+ y
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic ) k/ _; T9 k2 M, _: c8 s
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name ( E; ^9 m4 b; I) [+ y" O$ x% J

. ?" c, ~$ @: ?5 r5 \; Y0 J2 x" }of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 1 L% L. V  }5 q) Q4 T! J& ^8 i
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number 3 j! W: t$ b; I  p6 }  g3 P( C; e9 t
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of people he/she hates.
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So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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8 Y4 n4 b2 _- F  c3 I3 while some up to 5 potatoes. 0 b! c6 Y" o, V- Q' u" }+ r

4 i. `; x/ L# K; {7 U7 qThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes + Z0 A* j! y  V# k+ h) N$ _
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. - O- e0 k* |. o8 Y: r. I+ {
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain % a5 t& i  H. U4 E' G, v
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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) `6 \5 l# ]/ X: gthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 * n3 w$ c2 S: u/ [8 t

4 Z( i, u- L% Z9 l. v5 [week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. : M4 w* _" W+ z! }

/ l/ d; ^; T: T% uThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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0 f7 Y/ s# W) g8 B$ u, n$ Bhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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% C1 j5 H/ I* p! i7 q( d  rThe teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry % Y: m  `  b  B; L" S* i
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 7 E; ]4 x. Y  w5 O6 a4 F

6 [8 Z; ?0 u4 e% @/ e# pwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just + E* E3 c3 i2 T
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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it is something you do for yourself. 2 B) w! g4 i% N2 E' z% J- T* v3 e) l* u

6 L1 S2 J9 E3 M" |$ \* T# dGive yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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