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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED 7 I& s5 W: Z# a* [
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 5 m* b' Y) e) E8 l, c9 K7 F
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic 3 p3 k+ S. m( N: m8 j$ J
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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% ]2 R1 L" d7 Z4 ^0 |' x; I1 Lof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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' n3 @. O/ ]6 U5 E. V. BSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with . Y: w( x8 J4 C  m% T
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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! d0 @" _  q3 c4 r, ~- CThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes $ Z8 D( L5 Q/ B& B

* F" ~. D& l, Z( W; U  V; e$ Min the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain # Q2 W* Y% [0 [6 b& s9 J9 [
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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7 d0 H, ~& O. h0 ~those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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8 \* e  h6 b9 r3 J8 I# Q3 Uwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and / p. T" ?3 E. Z* }- [! o! z* B2 }

8 W, [) I( q+ p3 u7 x$ W# {started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through + \1 @0 c1 o) ]. q+ V
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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- X. W3 D1 w$ W6 _Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. : o( V: J1 A. e% w
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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8 W7 a2 v2 _! j0 Y7 @: {8 kyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just ! i$ S: }9 x7 l  m' f6 x* f* ?' ?
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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1 c0 I1 }- W9 }  c4 u5 A( p% k"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;   X% c. C$ S- x, K, |

# W7 x$ c& ?9 w# c9 mit is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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