买外一个叫做sympathy card 写上: Dear Susan. I am so sorry for your loss. You and John were both so close to me and my family. Please feel free to let me know if I can help with anything. Take care. Love Sam. % |1 B+ A/ q' E3 `9 @) ? 4 i5 S4 J+ ?4 W$ [; b% q# ~不送钱,鲜花一般送在入土的墓地里。9 G+ ^- N" O: S