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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters. S5 V# w2 H8 @
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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1 Z( }' M% P' q5 |6 Z2 wYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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5 U6 D; X4 q. H) D j; BHow are you?
4 [: _0 J( A* u6 yFine.
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. D2 [- R! z. ^3 iThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.. y d9 f7 l. x# r" m
% c7 g# [3 |' f; W: E& SNot bad.+ E% u7 j: ^$ Q
/ P; r4 O; C( e, j5 m4 I( I) XThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".' E/ _. j" |- T( u' ]5 O+ V- I
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Fine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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( U. C0 B; V$ y) a! g& z& aVery well, thanks., V& n" S( R' o
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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c8 H" p& {+ m$ Y2 YPretty good.
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, v) s. x( O' f5 w# g* FIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.! b& V' R* T- e' e7 N) ]" R5 I+ T
1 B0 G$ O2 M% r$ I, gGreat! How are you doing?
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8 u; n0 r R/ A7 s! cThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.$ i( w2 m7 V- p, `/ e- Z
2 r( Y, A- I) L b5 V- xI'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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" h3 C$ w$ b& OI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:6 g; o- X6 m3 ^. R f5 l
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A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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A: What's wrong?0 U3 z ?4 U! U/ I; d" j
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.* B# U( o9 m, d3 [ D% z
' U; a! m" h% D. j6 C) A. MHow's it going?" T1 o* h1 P9 b9 ?: d3 d* r' ?9 U
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.$ T( }# m3 h2 K' p" E H
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"* P4 j- U0 C1 ^# A
/ D) @0 z1 [- ~# P8 @* ]It's going well. 1 r; t6 Z8 W8 [0 F
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?6 O* W" y( u/ u6 r4 n- H( Y
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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4 B9 J+ m/ H9 N1 c, AThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."0 Z o1 X S1 S
* B- c( |. v& t7 YNot a lot.
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9 |, @; T+ j3 m. \" sThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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7 k" G4 f; z, hAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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Just the same old same old.6 x; [; q2 R5 ~' Q- F% y
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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E4 {* s1 f, j7 w; y7 lOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!; f, q, A$ S0 v/ d" u
/ v0 z4 H9 }5 k, J, [You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.& w8 a! A/ S; j T( C/ o1 |
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What's happening?
/ f0 g# D3 l" m9 @This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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