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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters- Z5 t' n4 ], _% G! D: b/ v
# z1 s A) \# f7 F6 z$ cThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.6 Y( H2 h0 ]* t, d( L, E1 v8 [
6 y- z- J3 c# B' U8 Y; C; DYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"" B) B% l+ Z. H9 l' G6 n7 H
& @& {5 {$ f' z( R# B& gHow are you?9 r% G! w$ U. i: L0 I. h
Fine.. c+ ]/ W; K+ ^4 w, @* g; J0 j
7 x2 Y% y j/ d, O3 W zThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.1 K! M. k; L8 S# ~
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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- L1 v/ ] h! O+ |1 SThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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) r2 M- {4 N! kA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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6 r. W5 F9 j$ B; z9 W. U* Q3 ?$ wPretty good.
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& i T O) l, o/ g! Q2 L9 uIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.& Y+ I$ _4 e! r- q
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Great! How are you doing?% D, k5 U# l( I# F9 l' T$ Q$ N
7 J. N$ m4 W- H& V& oThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation./ W) a3 J$ E& y- [* Z# H
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I'm hanging in there.8 B& B* j& g6 J7 b
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.' ?. r& o2 M5 k
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I've been better.4 j; z5 x7 n% u! {% u1 ?9 r# D
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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* x5 o& g9 P9 N0 I9 [A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.# m4 l: Z9 A9 k% z( L
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A: What's wrong?- z8 P6 _1 k, `% V q! T
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.. f& V8 L: V! i* k; W
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How's it going?
+ Z; D8 j0 N" F/ |: P) |( ~This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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" F5 D" ~3 }4 N4 s! Y( f+ mHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"; u3 Q& V5 E0 T* _6 ^5 Z7 O; B9 E) ^
( g0 x( N! c6 U+ l t! }/ ~It's going well. 0 I% b9 V4 d0 g1 @: z# d( g) n- S
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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) i$ _( }' A9 ~3 t+ ~This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:, t4 f' i' {+ X/ g! q1 b: n9 \
& O; D) G4 A8 L( K' |7 E: aNothing much.
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7 u0 P2 |, R3 I1 \; Z" ~This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."2 |) _( @7 m9 Q7 Y+ M/ q
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common. _& `) \* B8 {' t
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.7 y1 M" t& e/ K e; u7 N
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Oh, just the usual./ S' l5 Q% O& P
" N; L# e6 u3 e) o" g9 [2 XAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.% f$ u; X# |. H) V! u
/ { S% E2 y9 g1 E3 x" UJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.! @( r" B+ o4 R0 A0 ]! W. w
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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& K+ f4 U: k& a; wYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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5 W% e, `1 U7 n! S4 ^3 e6 h$ B4 b& ZThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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