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, g) w# P) a* t+ t9 d) ~+ XHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"1 A, E5 T- I/ H$ b. s
) K0 y3 m- o$ O( C, vHow are you?) j/ s& J5 N* ], D& W+ [ W, v
Fine.
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; U+ W. m' ^& x8 m. AThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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: M. i9 P3 z6 b( G5 P( jThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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! k8 q% x F, T& XFine, thanks.) X4 C E3 Q# G7 L5 U! F+ ^& a4 A3 `
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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# X2 u+ t; {- r7 l( {) FA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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/ `( I6 w1 }& T9 u9 ?/ {" gPretty good.
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" {) a+ i3 |9 Z) a" iIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.2 S6 y4 ?) f$ O9 ]( I
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Great! How are you doing?
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2 M y* A1 f3 wThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.3 |% G5 x) Z9 R6 j# n
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I'm hanging in there.
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0 l: i+ O+ Y# c6 [" cThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better. Q( S! Q" ?! K4 q5 C! J: r4 h
: C1 a8 F7 K, I$ b6 ]# KPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:7 H9 N# S3 ?; T# v
6 v1 d9 c, W$ {" XA: How are you?* [4 A/ Y- q, F: E' `, {% O+ j& q
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A: What's wrong?
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/ x' w: U# b5 B- J2 z eB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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2 O, i2 B3 ~" cHow's it going?
! ]$ R, r& y) ?: E8 q9 q4 F+ h. tThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. ; h8 k P$ i; @ b
0 @1 @. E$ ~8 a# BWhat's up?
$ C# d/ P8 m4 f1 U1 G0 Y+ _This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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, ~: s( ?+ ^6 H' g* aNothing much.! V( ]& y5 t9 W( q) J( O6 i, g/ |! R
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."6 e! e5 }# M9 |' q; V
, W9 V% @6 Y* F# DNot a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.( y, f( s/ m1 k q
4 u4 F1 ` c, e4 @. V: H* }( fNothing.$ H" r+ @* d' @
2 Y$ y. x; X( P% Z9 |This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.$ U0 I- j: ?* p' J4 Q
( P. Y5 y; E; ^1 i( mOh, just the usual.) J* p- T, d' q: u1 B
2 ~. b. I" V3 ^& QAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.4 W9 l. z/ F3 v# d. s" u9 H
& R* @$ H* v/ V E; NJust the same old same old.* J' k; D- j+ X9 l! k6 V
8 k+ D' T" x' CThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.6 l; D+ ^) _( |/ h% Y& u6 X" j: H
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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