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% q/ P& ^0 H5 v! [7 D) fHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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1 G! Q. u/ @7 I4 QThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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p9 Y. C+ N: j" K% V! W8 n( O/ QYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"1 Y k* C! |3 @6 A! Z- Z
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How are you?' ]# P- P& l3 G
Fine.$ a1 f: @$ R* T- b4 `: k4 H- N `
8 q1 V9 l" D8 p, p# A% MThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.* k; [( C- N; _7 }' f7 G
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.: g& l' U5 [: }4 d. p/ F5 S- W
( W1 N9 h( I0 B) n: z' l# {* eThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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3 c0 |! m7 T# ?8 A4 D: WA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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# c8 T2 j1 U. qPretty good.6 c1 L3 F& m: }
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.% R, D7 |* Z1 Z3 ^( N
1 N* t$ K4 {1 I4 vGreat! How are you doing?
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+ i; l# H4 ~" A+ H$ @) p2 R x. O3 `This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.8 b9 L: @3 [( k+ p5 ]0 X. Z% @6 u
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.3 Z; L+ z/ v# ~6 ~
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I've been better.% N3 M( ^$ D: B3 U
: ~; @1 n& T. lPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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7 a5 Z8 X3 p; d8 p$ n9 vA: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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# H4 y9 N. b! P& Q& YA: What's wrong?$ @0 h3 c7 m( B9 |" O2 l
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.! j( U( q5 ?8 @" u1 s* [
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How's it going?. u7 y" r/ v6 N# X/ i) a# P8 B: ~
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.# | ^- Z; k+ C' k
q2 ^' }$ U1 m0 f5 \Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?
1 U( `7 r% `: P4 a4 MThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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+ e$ b0 Z: N* w, H7 h3 S% hNothing much.5 S1 C2 {7 Y# J9 j: x
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."3 S* o& K. b+ v" E
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Not a lot.# H9 j3 M" \0 T+ _2 F# ^- N% n
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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5 t; F3 J, P( Y9 DOh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.$ C5 c6 a; q' x7 |8 R
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Just the same old same old.% S! d2 B* N9 j+ @ l8 {: m
" d: j# ?2 ~ g$ t) _This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!4 q& A6 ^$ f$ e3 b9 J
1 v& ~9 E' c$ T, iYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.* j+ M3 T+ Q P. ^- X; W
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What's happening?
7 F2 h7 `: d& _! F# M8 w( ?This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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