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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. ; ?% i9 _$ [% l: G) r
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, 1 [# I9 y, B; K3 U- S
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. - ^* V% K5 s, a% w8 A7 D
! K9 b Y5 c7 _ Z# q( h! XAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual / o$ U- w0 B1 x; q9 h, V, x
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been 7 T8 }2 o! Z @! z3 c. d" q% D& L
hung on his window. & I7 ^) x4 ?4 u, `* n
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait." * ~ Q& F* t9 X2 S/ d4 `; |. g
$ P4 I0 a: x! ^5 p% c1 `"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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' Y$ G. o5 u. X"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my / u$ r9 ^ ~4 g# r& O/ J6 S
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how 7 U3 F$ s: |: H8 D2 ? [
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. 3 N6 P+ h7 [/ s: {+ u
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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and be thankful for the ones that do.
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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Just for this time in my life. 8 P) O: ~* }" Z$ `7 q0 |
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. 3 M" l& z, [5 S8 s! ?4 X
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
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I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 9 @6 z+ j( N# r. n8 p
! t# @; _) {7 y) l) z" n 1. Free your heart from hatred.
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) o, N4 u+ o4 r, u6 S 3. Live simply.
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5. Expect less. |
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