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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 5 _( R" K Q* ~2 g7 u: ]
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
6 r. f; u6 L) B; x f! u) x6 c老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 % q- w3 D% x$ Q1 a
- z* R6 o+ e) b/ s% ?There is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. 4 h+ G2 V i8 t% ]( t
$ h# C: }% B) M5 N& {$ bIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years./ w3 N+ d# v+ k5 _, W. l$ S0 m
" @; C/ B9 A' B/ Z4 b; I' PA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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