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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 2 [# @! E8 }) ?5 z! U- |
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
4 r/ r& ?/ W* [4 u0 r! t5 k老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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9 ^$ Q4 m( \' R- C! ^! fThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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: M( Z) Y4 \9 t; L) ~0 {: |In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.
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" s5 l/ w% o8 xA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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