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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
) W6 y1 ]- ~0 ~8 Y8 a P1 i$ o; E兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
* H$ N; ?6 |1 m9 x老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 6 v8 O# K+ ~$ R I" w0 l$ `
& B. t) k8 K4 A0 h0 b9 iThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives.
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7 J3 x B) s1 p" s% D% EIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.; p; N* R" y6 ^' s2 z; k7 n4 W% T
4 H/ l8 @3 `9 _2 B, p6 {/ `A reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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