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人行明镜中 发表于 2013-4-28 09:28 
5 g9 D# P5 K+ y$ D, b% O- S5 H我不是那么绝对把两者对立起来。我觉得中国传统文化把父母和子女的关系利益化和感情化绑定在一起,父母懂 ...
- V4 u7 `2 S9 d( V! X6 j8 uNow,中国父母懂得他们的晚年不能依赖于子女,我父母不强求我们, but must be 自立的, my mother is very( Y6 z+ i8 ]* u' l7 f* L+ t
独立, she lives alone, she hires a lady and take care of her, she talks me, if she cann't move, she hires
5 s+ j) \7 U" m2 PSW, I said, I will take care of you. if i take care of her, it is my 自由选择, she 不强求子女.
, h# ~1 ^4 u" C* M& t我孩子很独立, 我从来不指望将来依靠孩子,也不会为孩子牺牲自己的生活,也不强求孩子遵照我的意志,% c F- E( z/ f7 y/ R
I watch her far away, if she has difficults, I will help her. |
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