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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to1 {3 l7 ]0 P. y0 w+ |
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what- {: O7 K6 [! N. M/ D9 N
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
5 y1 O* Q) L e2 `' n1 ethink of you.
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3 p, y. K6 m: a7 Q- ]Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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say—listen for the name.
a) K0 Y3 H6 [ ?& Z% J& S3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.. Z% g: P6 b: Q( O3 Y% X
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know( I) Y$ ^ n d& J
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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