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Sometimes people come into your life M- A# p% |0 r7 B" K0 w# A4 ^3 U
you know right away that they were meant to be there,+ l0 a# D3 l# P5 ~( ?8 M; a- e4 B
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,: U1 j% ~& [$ k0 M h
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.% w: R2 ], D) O) {+ d$ x; g, a
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You never know who these people may be
/ ^4 G( t* m* D5 d4 ?. @5 N) u& ]) @ Sbut when you lock eyes with them,
4 i ^& Y. A2 D. pyou know at that very moment,
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P: g; b* s% {; t* eThey will affect your life in some profound way: T4 W! M( x/ f. L" [' p- I( m* X3 z
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 G7 Y" G" p9 v ]. ^; V2 J' |. G
They are there for the reason you need them to be.5 a7 Y$ \1 O$ L7 @7 K0 T
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
! G5 \( ?1 R( d pSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.2 A+ F1 X+ @- q7 b3 w9 Y3 Z+ T
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.) v' w, D, K, P+ [ U
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,3 }' P- u9 M, L: ~% y. y
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.( o' P2 h3 C) E' B4 m& N1 H
The prayer you sent up has been answered./ Z, Z: _, B7 S7 W
And now it is time for you to move on.' e# S0 u) X# ^' d+ T2 x- r4 j
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9 ]' ?. `# @* y6 a3 fThen people come into your life for a REASON- u$ B& T0 d+ b! s! O
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.8 S% R; C7 B; V7 y O3 @
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.! ^! @ V7 f; ~) B. ^
They may teach you something you have never done.* I* Y8 {5 Q% }0 I9 \
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- w) Q7 d- ~, x8 @Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦: v* s! D0 E7 H+ F# U
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; v: T; |8 o D$ L' m1 LLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:$ z) e8 \% `) C# g
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
2 ?5 Z" L: n: _, V" R4 IPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.4 `* U/ j |" S0 x0 M0 h& F
Everything happens for a reason.7 P% z3 L8 R, }, L' {) V
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
" w6 G' ]) e$ Y7 Q u @ H6 YIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,# j/ @* n- p! \6 |' a1 H+ q9 J4 L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
$ v' q0 y! v& v+ T* tIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,4 l2 f, U8 _1 V' G9 \* y. H. T
Try to love them back unconditionally,9 b- l0 L+ f5 [5 g" B8 G0 |/ t4 n2 z
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
$ x$ Y. Z" ^3 H- u# V+ A- v+ sthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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" ?- @2 _& t# F4 p/ S i! xThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,% ~, ?( K @$ ]$ I% ^7 _
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
# q0 {& @& Z6 L" E5 L6 \& k2 i6 UA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
1 K0 c$ M5 r3 z+ Nand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
- g( `5 T9 A$ v% d/ o# PGod's grace is as a healing hand.1 \' G! K# j, V+ h" e+ @9 v
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
% u8 r( Z# M( p' S7 C3 {& |2 Qthe warm memories and love for those we have lost$ d3 ~5 i9 w- F/ N
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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