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Sometimes people come into your life4 a. @) r! h- r2 E. B- F) K {
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
7 w+ ]! R- \1 E5 p( Xto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
2 a5 n# D/ A& q! `or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be./ b" k3 J' Y( L
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3 V9 l5 X. N3 C, LYou never know who these people may be
6 z) o4 y, j. Y# bbut when you lock eyes with them,
w/ N( ~; d: L" X' ^you know at that very moment,5 V! @; W4 G9 V( `& G( k/ U v6 V
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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7 d% Z0 L# \- gThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
" v" G( F* G. o/ p/ c9 _They are there for the reason you need them to be.% i; R6 V1 `* l! M
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,5 b. Z3 K# \! {! C6 N' D
) h9 F5 `8 v) g! `* QThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 X' \; V; ^0 V. w" F5 e" o9 \Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ S' _( t/ Q y6 W7 i0 R# Y
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.: i& j; D. p; ?+ X ^" B8 c* \4 @6 k
And now it is time for you to move on.) A- X$ M7 J% o6 n5 Z3 L3 C9 @
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6 k1 \& r }/ l+ C; rThen people come into your life for a REASON
# C3 ]$ p1 g; C6 u$ ]( H& K# qBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 o; \4 V/ r' y. b2 T1 \They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 h& Z8 r& D. X, c+ J- _
They may teach you something you have never done.
) D4 }9 e X$ Q) X: m0 {They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
9 O& c$ v3 ?! x$ Y I* T- S' ?! xBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦/ M6 R+ J. G$ s3 ~, c) S/ B% s. V
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2 n+ O1 v( @5 P* P8 XLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:+ ]1 V/ I& \, T: ]1 {: _# m& I
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life, B$ w1 v/ Y; @4 K) M g. v- K; @
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
+ \; X D- F. H2 }- ~$ M+ r6 m$ ~% ^3 ^Everything happens for a reason., S- n( a: A9 |
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
& c3 b, a0 M* I& o+ S- L/ P3 ]Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,7 {% F0 ]* P4 ]+ o, m! q5 Y
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
: x* S1 l- L/ C3 q0 mYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,7 d* v" q* w4 _9 |% X. ^8 |( a
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 v9 f! E- H; r! U4 N. j8 C/ i) B7 X
for they have helped you learn about trust
2 n. ~8 y( {" pand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.1 l) n. y& ]2 q6 a
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,# u% [, ~, d) M
Try to love them back unconditionally,+ R4 P. k$ \( f! b7 r9 @! b
not only because they love you, but because in a way,2 }/ V2 `. W, V! }) i7 q
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.1 k7 ]: B# n5 x) p) o
, |2 U2 X2 @0 }$ p, G& ~The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,+ w7 ]6 E: z& i( g# q" Z' d
6 O: z$ V5 b% `2 rand a time to every purpose under the sun.
% ]; R! E" j E- r( U+ j8 g6 ?; AA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,1 ]6 b s! Y! ~
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
1 P+ `+ W7 Q, F# qGod's grace is as a healing hand.; i7 A- y8 z8 x5 X
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,2 ^% ?; L/ e9 U
the warm memories and love for those we have lost+ i. c4 y0 ~8 E$ H* d0 ^
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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